I just learnt that H just took some money out of our savings without telling me. The amount is not much, but it is just disrespectful. I am giving him the space and time to explain, but I am too disappointed (disgusted) to even bring anything up.
It is really unfortunate that he has to do that as he is earning more than enough, so he should not feel the need to dig in to our savings. I refuse to think further about the whys and potential reasons as whatever it is, what he did was just wrong. I will just manage the situation as it happens. I have my own savings account that he cannot access, and I am opening my own current (checking) account first thing tomorrow. I will then start transferring money from accounts he can access (my money) to my own individual accounts.
I will also have DB coaching tomorrow, so hopefully will get more inputs on my current situation.
Please consult an attorney. AT minimum you will need to document this withdrawal for any future settlement discussion. However, an attorney can guide you on whether a fund freeze order may be necessary. Do not gloss over this. His small withdrawal could be a test for a more substantial withdrawal later. You need to know your rights and you need to protect yourself legally.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
