Quote: I told him how I was feeling and he went ballistic. He started throwing clothes into his suitcase, yelling at me. Saying "I can't take this anymore. You're not giving me any space." and " I can't deal with this kind of confrontation every weekend. Didn't last night mean anything to you." etc..
That is, of course, the CLASSIC response of a spouse to a bid for greater differentiation. Bravo! You handled yourself like a pro!
Quote: I really no longer feel the need to post on this board except that I feel I have the responsibility to share my success with others.
Hmmm.... "And they lived happily ever after???" Don't believe it for a moment! You'll still have your challenges, and backsliding is a real possibility. Don't be too disappointed if "happily ever after" doesn't immediately follow, lol! Just keep working at it, and post here when you need to...
