AnnKay, I agree with Steve’s comments on the last page about taking advice only where you agree with it. Bear that in mind when I say the following:
Imagine your nicest, and quietest friend. Imagine she has invited you out for coffee at a cafe. And when you get there, she sits down and says everything in your first post. What would you tell her to do with this man of hers? What advice would you give her?
I know that this is a divorce busting website, but why do you want to be with this man? He is a habitual liar and cheat, who tries to control you, wants the best of both worlds, appears more worried about his OW’s welfare than the welfare of the mother of his kids, and comes and kisses your hand and rubs your pregnant belly straight after having those hands all over OW a few hours earlier.
IMHO He’s an absolute creep show, you should run in the other direction, and the hardest thing for you from this point forward will be emotionally coming to terms with having devoted a large chunk of your life to someone who’s a dirtbag.
Look after your health, keep up the IC, eat well and make sure you exercise and keep your body active (in a way that your OB suggests).
There’s lots of Aussies on this website… perhaps we need our own sub-forum
