Originally Posted by Dink
I just found out Friday there is indeed another man…..

Two of my mantras:
I do not want to be with a women who does not want to be with me.
I do not share my woman with other men.

Create your own mantra list as you go through this process.


One of the top things for you to address is your resentment and blame. Forgiveness is extremely important for your growth. Feel the anger, morn the loss of the relationship. Keep processing everything. Feel the emotions. Learn to express them in a healthy way. Do not let your emotions control you. Control your emotions.


Make a plan and execute the plan.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712