Exactly. It's spite from when I expressed deep dissatisfaction about it (at the exact time the rapid loss started and OM became an infatuation). She wants to attract OM or someone else. No death or illness in the family.
Thus may be the key then. She didn't feel supported by you. Does she have any eating disorder history? Could she be bulimic? (The only other way I see weight loss this rapid).
I'd say, if you want to win her back, the first step would be to apologize for not being supportive in the past. Because if your love for her is dependent on her weight, she's not ever going to be comfortable or secure in your marriage.
I have profusely. But she's past it and doesnt care what I think. Complementing her before I knew any of this was going on only made her angrier.
Not necessarily. If I’d struggled with my weight off and on for years, and my spouse was very critical - and then I found some method (healthy or unhealthy) that finally allowed me to lose weight - I’d probably be thinking “F you H! “
Not necessarily. If I’d struggled with my weight off and on for years, and my spouse was very critical - and then I found some method (healthy or unhealthy) that finally allowed me to lose weight - I’d probably be thinking “F you H! “
