I know the steps are the same, but do they hit rock bottom sooner and if so, how do you help them to hit rock bottom so you can turn things around faster?
Or is rock bottom losing an affair partner and spouse and kids at the same time at which point you need to let them play things out? I could never forgive a PA. If its inevitable I'd rather save my kids and I the pain.
NOTHING - and I do mean NOTHING you can do to make them hit rock bottom.
And for each person it is a different thing and different time.
Its possible that they will never hit rock bottom.
My mother never did - I will say that. I thought when she went to jail it might help but it did not.
Worry about YOU and things YOU can control not her and things you have no control over
