This is libbyasking's thread and over a decade stale. Just a piece advice using the forum...you'd probably be better off asking these questions in your own thread, so folks can respond to you directly and specific to your situation.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21