This only occurred when they realized they were going to lose their spouse and kids.
If your W is truly in MLC this will take a really long time to play out.
Originally Posted by BTBNR
However, can this rock bottom only happen at the end of the MLC process (withdrawal, acceptance etc). Or can you snap them out of it say in the early stages like anger, before the affair/replay happens.
You can not snap her out of it. It is a journey she must go completely through. No shortcuts.
Originally Posted by BTBNR
Or if you initiate divorce in replay, are you basically just guaranteeing the end of your marriage?
If you initiate divorce you will highly likely end up divorced.