KitCat,

Glad you had an amazing vacation.

I think you know what you're getting w/ExH and Pilot at this point, but your attitude about it seems better in your latest post, so if you're comfortable with and accepting of what they're offering then good for you.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21