I find this rating system 6.7/10 or what have you on this attractiveness scale T speaks of. I looked it up. I consider myself a 5/10 as this scale says 5 is average for looks. That’s me. So maybe that’s my problem? Men want a 7/10 ? Who knows.
Oh, Ginger! What I was saying, even if men initially filter on Age X-Y, Looks Z+.. as we communicate with a lady, as we see their character and how they vibe, their attractiveness changes. (There is actually a study on this--when college students were asked to rate the attractiveness of classmates at the beginning of the school year, their responses were similar, at the end very different, especially for the people they knew well.) My GF is now irresistible to me. I was endorsing kml's approach of initiating if you see a good match. Once they get to know you, they will see the beauty that everyone here sees.
