E- your musings are helpful. And we all know hindsight vision is 20/20. The baby shower I just went to…… she and her husband met online. They are a fantastic couple. She just such a sweet good person and so is he. They have lots of love for eachother. OLD does work for people. It just hasn’t worked for me in the way I would like it to work.
I am joined to a singles group for my state. Lots of couples came out of it and they often do meetups. Most of them are sort of farther from where I live, and one day I will pull the trigger and go to one of them. In the past I have met a guy at the group fitness classes I went to. Others through friends. Everyone says they have their eye peeled for me. I know I do better organically. The opportunity is rarely there.
We have lunch and learns at work with reps from other companies. It’s been a long time since we had one (covid) and we are starting up again. The device rep for a certain wearable defibrillator is Quite attractive. My coworker says “ you gotta get his number” she missed the big ole wedding ring on his left ring finger, lol. It’s tough at the age where many men and women are married middle aged. People rarely blindly approach because you assume they are married. And a lot are .
I find this rating system 6.7/10 or what have you on this attractiveness scale T speaks of. I looked it up. I consider myself a 5/10 as this scale says 5 is average for looks. That’s me. So maybe that’s my problem? Men want a 7/10 ? Who knows .
