In my experience the majority of those 120 messages guys throw out are not personalized and do not show they have read my profile.
True story . Men are visual and just swipe away. Majority don’t read profiles or assess for compatibility. They see something pretty and swipe right . Women will take time read a profile, assess for interests and compatibilities. I have swiped left many times on an attractive men whom state they want kids or live too far away. Men will Swipe right on a looks then assess for compatibility. Also a winky face message, a “hey sexy” will not get an answer .
And none of that is unreasonable.
There are actually statistics supporting this as well.
Men and women have different experiences because men and women are different creatures. Not because women “must” have men who are 6 ft tall, with a 6 figure income .
