LH - would you think it reasonable to go out to a bar 4 or 5 times before meeting someone you are excited to date? That would be about 1 in 200.
So you are going to get a decent idea of 200 dudes going to a bar 4 or 5 times? That's like talking to 40 dudes a night.
Originally Posted by kml
So maybe the key to success IS being picky?
I think it's good to be picky and no one should settle for less then what they are looking for. I am just trying to explain why IMO why Don, Ginger, BL etc are frustrated by it. Deja views herself as a 40 percenter but is looking for a .05 percenter. That is a big variance. This is why men get 1 response in 120 messages and it can be frustrating and debilitating to your self esteem. That's probably why the half a$$ profiles because they have given up.
