Don - I do understand your point of view even though I disagree with parts of it. I get that it’s not illegal nor should I have an expectation of privacy. However, this was the ONE place I went to for help because nothing else I tried worked for me. My upsetness was not about the legalities of whether or not they could or would read my thread…it was more about the morality of it. If he had any decency, he would have just left it alone OR told me he knew about it and let me decide if I wanted to continue on. But he (they) didn’t… he (they) read every single word and used the information against me. RE: me not liking him. Again…I don’t like or dislike either of them. I dislike what they did and what they are apparently still doing. But when I see him, talk to him or text him, I am friendly, flexible and congenial which is what I choose to be for the sake of our coparenting relationship. And 95% of the time, my inner feelings match up with what he sees. The other 5% of the time, I come on here and I work through it and get on with my day. Him coming on here to read about that 5% is unhelpful and frankly, disrespectful, regardless of the legality of it or the ease in which he can access the information. It’s just sad that he isn’t mature enough to recognize that. I hope our kids turn out to be better people.
KML… The house building is still in the planning stages unfortunately. The supply chain is part of it. The complications related to the site. The zillions of new building codes we have to adhere to. It’s a nightmare, to say the least. But…we are committed to doing it nonetheless. My BIL met with the engineers just prior to our DL trip and they have approved the plans. Next step is to submit them to the city for the permits. This can apparently take many months. So…we’ll see how it goes. Realistically - we are probably looking at a 2024 completion date.
