Clearly a glutton for punishment

[DonH]

Now having said that OLD is still frustrating for me at times but not enough for me to give it up.

No, not yet. But give it time. It took myself, ginger and others time to get to the point we’ve gotten to.

Probably why I am still single. Although I don't complain about it.

Again, not yet. If this continues for another 5 years let’s see how you feel. Again, myself, ginger and others didn’t complain as much several years into post D dating either. It’s nearing or into double digits where it gets really really old. N the plus side we’ve not yet settled.

You're a good person. Most people would ghost.

You are beyond correct on this one. In fact this guy may be so over the top excited because after being ignored, turned down and ghosted, he’s actually got an actual date with an actual good looking woman. He’s so over the moon about it he burned a vacation day for it. Sadly most or at least many would just ghost him. Some would just not show up. Ginger is not like any of these more typical OLDrs - thankfully.