I really didnt expect to come here and find the board more like Reddit. I thought the board would be still well rounded and all around helpful. Balanced.
I would just suggest to you that, like IRL, its likely more balanced than you may suspect. There’s a silent component of people who, like you, get frustrated and give up or just don’t want to deal with it anymore. I hear from some of them privately but they don’t want to post those thought here - likeky for the same reasons you have. That’s exactly how a more vocal minority gets their way - by shutting the rest of us down. They can’t win on the merrris so they switch to calling us names like you experienced after you asked legitimate questions in your area. So I’d encourage you to stay and to continue to comment. I really do think the tide is about to change. People have had enough. Besides there is real progress happening - everything used to be Trumps fault - everything! TDS should be added to the DSM-5. But that too has changed, now it’s all Putins fault!!!
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