Yes, fingers crossed that the house sale goes through. It’s nice to see S14 wanting to give input and be in the process of finding a home. The family home is an upheaval in his life too, and being involved helps with buy in and moving forward. Basic change management skills.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
I actually still need to send an e-mail to EXH in regards to the split of our TV account, Netflix, Spotify,... as I don't want to see all his history anymore but I'm not in a mood to get any reaction from him right now. I'm actually afraid for the answer I will get again, I simply can't stand it anymore. I guess he went too far the past weeks... Therefore I will wait a few weeks, maybe other things will still come up that need closure and I can do it all at once then.
Fear. The worry about a possible future response, which entangles and paralyzes.
If fearing his possible answer or retort - don’t ask him, tell him.
I found out the providers of those services do not spilt them. Accounts are awarded to only one of the parties in a divorce. Ask yourself, what do you want to do about the TV, Netflix, Spotify, and such accounts? Do you have lots of purchased songs and movies and such? Assuming you do not, let go those services. No need to fight for them.
A suggestion. Take yourself off those accounts and send an email to XH stating those are now his. No questions to ask. No answers needed. No more surprise playlists. No more strings. Fresh new accounts for you, with only your content on them. You can make your own closure on this, if you want. You do have control.
Have a great my friend; and hoping the perfect house comes along soon.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
