Change the way you interact with her. Change the way you behave when you are around her. This will change the way she thinks of you. Do not let her emotions effect yours. Become amazing. Do not let fear control you. Use your logic. Lead her through this process. And most important, do not be boring.
Lots of wise people here, sift through as much as you can and make a plan on how to be a man only a fool would leave.
R2C
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712