Originally Posted by Dink
She told me a week ago she wanted the divorce. We had still been in the same house this past week and things for the most part we pretty normal no much more talk about it and we even cuddled and had sex during the week. She kept calling me babe and such but I knew from the few
Times we talked about it this week that she was set in her decision. I came home yesterday and told I would move to or other place for the time being to give her space as we go forward with divorce and figure things out and when to tell the kids. We both cried a lot and after about a hour or so I left. I have not spoke with her today

Dink, I would let her go to the other home. You aren't the one that wants a D, why should you be the one to leave?

Yes I'm sure in her mind it is made up. But then it was 3 years ago when she moved out too. They are always sure it is what they want, until they aren't. Just start DBing and l let her figure out her own crap. I'd also stop crying with her. Emotionally even is where you want to be. Read up on emotional detachment.

Last edited by SteveLW; 03/15/22 11:15 PM.
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