She offered to go to our other house which is only 30 minutes away. It is in the town where both work . I told her I would stay there so that I could work on stuff to get it ready. I don’t believe she truly wants a divorce because she love the family aspect we have and was a issue last time we separated as well. she wants to be friend and do stuff as a family, when I told that wouldn't happen last time, she said that was part of the reason she came back because how it was affecting the kids and me and the family. This time she still wants all that but said she hasn't been able to move past the years of my not being available and emotionally not present for some many years. Though she has love for me know after these past three years it currant hasn't obviously filled the hole that She says is still in her heart.