The last 3 years she said she has love for me again and stated I have become the husband she always wanted now over the three years, she just can't get past these feeling from those years, it has left a hole in her heart.
Sorry you are here again Dink. Resentment is what lands most people here. You are going to have to give her time and space to burn through the big pile of resentment. Until that happens she can not and will not see you any differently. There is no timeline on how long this could take. Likely 2-5 years. Work on yourself and become the best man you can be physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually.
Originally Posted by Dink
She said she decide to come back originally because I said i wouldn't be able to be friends with her and do stuff as family originally and she said that scared her, because I am her best friend and couldn't picture me not in her life.
Stick to your guns. W I can not just be friends with you.
