On a positive note, I met with my financial folks and got some details on my situation for the divorce as well as some idea of how my future might look. And even if it isn’t the greatest, it also isn’t dire. So that did rest a lot of fears in my head and gave me some comfort.
Great news Elerbeth!! That is such a relief, isn’t it. I know things got better for me after I figured out I would be okay.
Originally Posted by Elerbeth
My STBXH texted me to ask if I could meet him for a drink. I thought WTF? At no time since he moved out has there been a meeting for anything other than working through something that needed to happen. Definitely, nothing that is social like a drink. It seemed very out of the blue and I didn’t even realize he was in town (without the OW apparently). I replied that I preferred to text and we just discussed the kids and parents and nothing specific.
I’m impressed you declined to meet with him. I would have been flabbergasted as well, if I were you. Also a bit curious…lol. Good for you for upholding your boundaries.
Originally Posted by Elerbeth
Mentally, I am just in freeze mode and I’m struggling to get myself out of it. With all the loneliness and uncertainty in my life along with the unease about what is happening in the broader world right now (and a real danger of WW3) I’m really finding it difficult to move forward.
I hear you on that one. I can’t recall ever being this concerned about the state of the world. Praying every day that the world’s leaders find a peaceful way out of this although that is looking less and less likely as they days go by.
You’re not alone Elerbeth. You have a whole community of people pulling for you. Big ((((HUGS))) my friend. <3
