remember, do not put too much value on him hugging, kissing you, rubbing your belly or SAYING he wants to take care of you. He is telling you all you need to know by going home afterwards to OW. That is where he is really telling you what you need to know. Lots of LBSs struggle with this. "He comes over, he's nice, he fixes things at the house, he hugged me and said he loved me! He then left to go home where he lives with OW, but I think things are changing!" That is focusing on what we like (the first part) and ignoring the most important part (the second part).
This makes me think of when I was dating in my 20s. If I would not take any potential suitor's words seriously without real effort or evidence of commitment then, I should be able to do the same now. I know this might sound like I am simplifying the situation. Granted, things are more complicated now with marriage and children, but in principle it should be the same mindset.
Actual it is quite simple: Action not words. But most LBSs complicate it because they do not want to face reality. Do not let his words and token actions overshadow what is most important which is that he lives with OW.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
