Sigh. I know you have to live with it DV, and you're a better woman than I. What gets me is how your OW and Ginger's OW aren't begging you and her for forgiveness for cheating with your H the way they did. You'd think if they were decent people they'd have some shame, especially once they saw you weren't whatever he lied and told her you were.
Still, the fault lies primarily with your exes, and I understand what you're saying. I'm really glad my ex's new wife isn't one of his affair partners, and I sincerely hope their marriage sticks, because it means less trauma on my kids and hopefully means she will have to care for him in his old age.
