Interesting development… after writing about my skepticism that XH will ever take them anywhere, I get a text from him today telling me they are hoping to take the kids on a cruise to Alaska in July and are in the planning stages (translation - I just thought of it). There is NO WAY that is a coincidence. Clearly he and OW are still reading my thread. Guess I shouldn’t be too surprised. I probably gave them way too much credit thinking that they would respect my privacy after I found out about them being on here. Seriously…why do they have such a burning need to read my diary?!?! Oh well…when I decided to “live in the light”, I knew this was a possibility. If I can shame him into stepping up, that’s a win for my kids so happy to take one for the team.