G-money you are not wrong but you are on year 13. With Deja it is still raw and she might not be there yet. My exw told her goofy BF not to come to the wedding I was at because I don't play happy family. Maybe you guys are better people then me? Well actually you are. But not gonna do it. Hopefully 13 years from now we are all sitting around laughing about it but it's not funny to me right now.