mako,
Originally Posted by mako
I think she just didn’t really think of how big a deal it was going to be.
I'd be willing to bet this is the case. So often the WAS is emotions & reactions and not logic & planning.

It really is going to wear on her as time goes on. Besides her commute time and gas money, in relationships with the kids and dating partners.

Just make sure moving closer (if you choose to do so) is in the best interest of you and the kids and leave the impact to her out of the equation.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21