Yeah I’ve waived the white flag as far as the marriage goes.
Let her go. That is all you can do.
Originally Posted by mako
We had something good, once, though that was a really long time ago.
Amen
Originally Posted by mako
The kids would most certainly be better off with us together (assuming it was a good relationship).
Amen
Originally Posted by mako
Financially we’d be better off. Those external factors make a lot of sense.
Amen
Originally Posted by mako
Last year, I freely went back to her with no demands.
I remember. I took a lot of heat from the board for saying that was a bad idea.
Originally Posted by mako
I have a lot of resentment that I’m working on.
Time and space to eat through it.
Originally Posted by mako
Could I go back if I made a bunch of demands that she was willing to meet? I don't know, there’s just a lot of baggage. Nothing is necessarily a deal breaker that couldn’t be worked out, but it would take a lot of work, and I’m not sure she’s worth it now. She’s been pushing me away for 3 or 4 years and she finally succeeded.