Now that the divorce sage is complete, what are your plans?
I still need to read this whole thread but you know I'm too busy celebrating. lol My divorce was finalized yesterday and I cannot wait to get rid of his name.
The first thing I'm doing is working on my appearance. I lost a lot of weight and have been wearing oversized clothes for years. I threw away most of my clothes when he left to avoid triggers and because I still thought I was fat I went out and thrifted clothes that were too big. I already did my hair for court but let it fade out to save money. I've made an appointment to get that redone.
I need jewelry, coats, shoes, everything. I look way way better now than when he left and I'm ready to rock it. I had a drs appointment last week and she commented about how much healthier I am now. I've maintained my weight for 6 months without dieting, stress eating, I don't even own a scale. My heart is above average now in health and I rarely get off the couch. lol I had NO idea how sick he was making me until he was gone.
I'm headed today to meet with an animal shelter about fostering kittens. I did it for a while but quit when court dates started piling up and I got depressed. I bought a sewing machine 2 years ago but again depressed. I'm motivated to do that and I want to exercise now.
Part of me wants to go out on a casual date for funnsies and to eliminate this lack mentality but I'm tabling that idea for now. I have no doubt that I could find someone better than my exH. If they treat me like a human then that's better than I've had for 30 years. lol
Well this turned into a book but I'm just so happy!!! I got to get my own car insurance today and thought that was FUN. lol
TLDR: I want to work on my appearance, pick up a few hobbies and live each day to the fullest.
