Thanks Ginger. He never misses an opportunity to throw her in my face, that’s for sure. I mostly ignore my irritation when he does it but this particular situation was one in which it would have been much better for our coparenting relationship if he had said nothing at all. He’s never considered my perspective before though so why should I expect him to do it now?

Sorry you’ve not been able to do as many trips with your D as your ex has. No doubt I’d be super peeved if I were in your position given how little he contributes to other areas of her life. You are a great mom my friend. (((HUGS)))