I just want to stop by and empathize. All these years and I still feel my blood pressure rise every time they say “we” in reference to my daughter. It’s an absolute trigger for me. My ex will say “WE have her next weekend and “we” is then. Is it rational? I don’t know, but I definitely feel triggered every single time .
On a positive note, I am glad you guys got to have a fun, bonding vacation with the kids. I have taken my daughter on one big vacation ( vs. my ex’s 10 or so) and Disney still remains her favorite and she has such great memories!
