Yeah… that would have been my H too. The other thing that bothered me about the text is that about a month before we left, I told him that the trip was costing me a lot of money (about $6,000 CDN all in) and that it would really help me out if he could give our kids some spending money as I knew they would really want some souvenirs. That would have been a great way to show his appreciation but he didn’t give them a dime and I ended up spending another $700 (CDN). I also sent him a couple pictures of our kids during the week (building droids in the Star Wars section, a video of our son being confronted by stormtroopers) that I thought he would like since he is a huge Star Wars fan. No response or appreciation then either. So the text was almost insulting, tbh. On the surface it looked congenial enough but it felt more like a condescending pat on the head. Anyway… I’m good with not responding. You’re right KML… our exes do not know what they are missing out on.