I’m sorry your daughter is having such difficulties. The poor girl sounds so hurt.
How is son doing?
The ongoing legal situation sounds convoluted. You must be exhausted of it.
Originally Posted by Gerda
Today's judge told me I had failed to prove a change of circumstances…
There is a legal requirement, a burden of proof, needed to show that the existing arrangements require altering. One part of that is illustrating proving that the current circumstances were unforeseeable and not covered under the original agreement. And of course, the proof that the current situation is causing the present harmful or detrimental situation is necessary as well. Along with other items. And still, even if all that is met, it only means things might be changed.
What one knows and believes; and what one can prove in court are very different things. Legal requirements are strict and need to be met. I understand H is benefitting within the system and hurting you. He has the power of an existing and agreed upon arrangement between the two of you, and you have the uphill struggle to prove otherwise.
I am sorry you are in such despair. To break your lent shows its depth. (((Hug)))
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
