Forgot to mention that I talked to VP yesterday. We’ve basically decided that it is unlikely we would be too successful at building a friendship and that anything that bonded us platonically would likely just fade away eventually. Both of us have limited time to invest in people outside of our usual circles and kind of want to reserve that for a romantic interest. We both really like each other as humans but there wasn’t really a “spark”. His last text to me said that maybe one day in the future we would both go to a basketball game when our daughters are playing each other, see each other across the gym and thing OMG…we are meant for each other. LOL. You never know… stranger things have happened.
Anyway, I am okay with it. TBH, even if we had gone on a few more dates, I’m pretty sure I would have sabotaged it somehow given my mindset around it. Better we just move on and who knows, maybe fate will intervene one day when the timing is better. He is a pretty impressive person, for sure. I’m probably a dummy for just letting it be but I really did not want to try to force anything just because I think he is a good human. He deserves to be with someone who can’t wait to see him again and I’m definitely not that person.
