Yes, DnJ’s mantras are the best…. I have a few of these and other quotes on my refrigerator. Just to remind me each day!!
I’m not sure what happened. I had posted a response which seems to have gotten lost. Oh well.
V, Eagle, and DV have given excellent advice.
I think you did very well with the surprise visit. Being authentic and true to yourself is best. As well as taking the high road. Feelings are fleeting; take actions with that in mind and it will lead to very few regrets.
And yes, be better not bitter.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
