I don't think some of us are plan B because I think the ex is all about ego - no intention of returning but they like knowing someone wants them.

Plan B implies they keep the option open to return.

Is that more clear?

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver