I think what LH is trying to say is that most people are never plan B for the long term. In Eagles case, she was there while he needed to figure out his next step with OW. The door was open, he came home, took what he needed while he was figuring out what actual plan B was or how to get back to his current plan A which was OW. He is operating without a long term plan B.
Eagle, I know this could be incredibly painful. But I feel like now you are seeing things for what they really are and I am so happy to see you aren’t taking the emotional beating anymore and are going to protect yourself .
He may be crossing your boundary of no contact, but you can chose not to respond. Just remember that.
