As for 2 any kind of mind reading is a waste of time as you have no idea his reasons. Be thankful he wants to spend time with his son. The number one thing that has blown my mind being divorced is how many men give up time to spend with their children.
I am definitely guilty of mind reading. I have read the books, maybe I should just re-read and re-read them again. Thank you for the reminder. It does puzzle me how H is even able to think about being away from his son. H is usually very hands-on and very sentimental with our son, more so than me at times.
