A good rule of thumb is to come here BEFORE taking any actions when interaction with H. You have some wise people posting to you. Collectively, we have seen it all. Changing the way you interact and respond to H will be important. We have a lot of experience here making positive changes to our own behaviors, which can jump start yours.
Thank you, Ready2Change. I really appreciate this and all the posters's advice. I will certainly remember this rule of thumb.
