R2C I do take a bit of an exception with any theory that tries to fit things into neat little categories.
Yes, I agree. Even those three might be part of a 80/20 rule.Or maybe a base to work off of. Or maybe a starting point. I think those three are a minimum for me.
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Please start a new thread and link both threads together.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.