Give some thought about where you want to live. It's about to become very complicated. IF you prefer to move back to England for family and friends support, could you? Make sure you speak to an L, preferably one who's had experience with international laws. Once the divorce starts/happens, your H may be back to block that, but maybe now there's a way to maneuver it and maybe H would even let it happen. Don't know...just food for thought. We've had posters from one coutnry living abroad who had complications.
I am still thinking about this. I have spoken to a lawyer and was advised at the moment there will not be any complications. I am quite happy here, however, aside from not enough support system. My job is paying quite well and I do not think I will get something similar in the UK. I cannot bear the thought of restarting, at least for the time being. I also do not like the thought of moving my son to a place that is 'foreign' to him. He goes to day care and has a lot of friends from there, so I will hate him to miss out on that. I will probably go back for a period of time, maybe few months after the baby is born, but not sure if I will stay there longer.
