Boy that is a tough read. Your H is gone for now though he will likely flip flop for awhile. My suggestion to you is to take the focus 100% of your H at least until the baby is born. I know easy said then done. You are at high risk as it is and need to take care of yourself through the pregnancy. Take his help with your son when you can get it. Otherwise get as much space from your husband as possible. Don’t worry about the term MLC as it changes nothing.
