I’m really sorry to hear about the recent developments in your story.
A couple things I want to touch on:
First NC is for you. You can’t control if your husband contacts you. You can control how you react it and you can control the method.
I’m going to be honest here and this may sting a little. I do not believe you were ever the backup plan. Most LBS are not. He has been nothing but honest with you in the process but you chose not to listen to him saying oh that’s the MLC talking. That’s why IMO this board can get people stuck.
Lastly I’m curious I read on Stella’s thread you told her to listen to the people on here because they are giving her great advice. Then you basically tell her to ignore it until she’s ready. Why would you tell her that knowing how much more pain she will likely go through?
