I was at my daughters volleyball game and after it ended I went up to my ex to let her know that I would pick my daughter up at 12:30 PM tomorrow for a daddy daughter dance it starts at 2 PM. She quits why so early and I said because we were invited to join some other dads and daughters beforehand. I had gotten the invite a little earlier during the volleyball tournament.
Anyhow, in a aggressive tone she said “do you know a little bit of notice would’ve been nice!“
She went on to tell me how she spent no time with the kids recently and she didn’t appreciate that.
I asked her if she had anything planned and said it wasn’t a big deal I can pick them up later and she simply said “it’s fine“
It reminded me so much of our marriage. And for me the frustrating thing is she got the kids on Wednesday and because of her grandmothers funeral she’s taking my Monday and Tuesday from me.
She had done a nice thing where she said I could have the kids for dinner on Sunday, why feel the need to make aggressive remarks.
She could simply choose to be nice and say in the future if something like that happens I’d appreciate it if you could tell me ahead of time, and we could’ve talked about it. But instead he tries to get a bit of a digging.
Anyhow, it actually made me feel good that it was over, the marriage that is. I’m just tired of dealing with aggressive remarks from somebody, she also pointed out that I didn’t ask her if I could pick our daughter up at that time.
