I almost regret working to save my marriage and feel like an idiot for wasting so much time, holding out hope and not being a man of action and ending it right after I caught the EA.
Core I would say 90% of the people here feel the same as you after hindsight.
Originally Posted by Core
I'm doing pretty well considering the environment of the world and my state. My kids more importantly are thriving. I never imagined them doing this well. Smart, adorable, get along well. Talk well with other kids and with known adults. All around fun to be around, D5 bringing kindness and S3 bringing humor to the world.
This is all that is important.
Originally Posted by Core
I myself am in a rut. I want to leave the state, and get my kids somewhere less violent and where it better suits my culture however the only way to do that, would be to convince the ex to move. Which isnt happening, she keeps her head in the sand as to what's happening around our area.
Yeah I am down to 4 years before I can pick up and leave and that seems like a long time.
Originally Posted by Core
Alas as my goals seem impossible to achieve, I kind of just do enough to get by, while waiting for an opportunity.
This does not sound good. Is your body where you want it? Are you good financially? Any new hobbies?
