Good Morning El

What an interesting dream. Such valid, pertinent, and meaningful imagery. You’ve got it we’ll understood; a collapsing future, trying to save and store, all ramping up anxiety and being overwhelmed. Yes, there are plenty of tough decisions you are undertaking, and it’s exhausting. (((Hug)))

Originally Posted by Elebereth
Why do they do that? I know I shouldn’t put any thought into it, but after all I have been through, it still feels manipulative.

Oh, it’s quite manipulative. They are pushing their narrative. Weird thing, it’s mostly manipulating themselves. They are tying to feel the “good” life. They push and flaunt, mostly because they are taking themselves in to it.

This specific situation. This particular single picture after other ones. A picture of H and son. Sent again.

H may have forgot he sent the other ones. Personally, I think that unlikely given the information here. I think H is looking for a response. Some validation, acknowledgment from you. That’s the why. H wanted to hear that you saw he was with son. H is feeding his fantasy and it’s getting difficult for him.

I’m guessing you did not comment on the picture of H and son that was within the first batch sent, so H sent a single picture. One you cannot miss. He is baiting you. Be it good or bad intentions from him remains to be uncovered. Although him needing justification to further his actions does float to the top of the list of suspected reasons.

Shrug it off. (Although I see I am posting several days late. smile You have most likely already turned back to organizing and packing.)

D


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Be better, not bitter.
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