The divorce that won't end

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kas99,

I posted this last night and then worried that I'd offend someone. 3 years ago I was devastated, broken, shattered and wanted to die.

Don't worry about offending me - just meant I understand it in your case. It was incredible to me how he was living with OW for years yet at the same time fighting you tooth and tail against a D.

3 years, 11 court dates and $15k in legal fees later I was so tired. I feel like I've been through the wringer. I limped across the finish line battered and bruised but I made it so yes I wanted to celebrate surviving.

ExH (notice what I stressed) certainly put you through the ringer. Hope this milestone helps bring you some peace of mind and closure.