Take your time. I would wait a year if I were you. You have young kids and I think you still need time to process the end of your marriage.
This is the question BL, do you think you have fully processed the end of your marriage yet?
We are on basically the same timeline so curious as to where you are at. Everyone is different of course. I think I have, but then perhaps maybe I didn't love my W as much as I think I did.
Based on what I read I feel Bent is ahead of BL. I think Bent now realizes his marriage wasn't that great and has pretty much moved on. BL I still don't think you are convinced and have moved on. Ginger hates to see you emotionally unavailable guys out there taking up her valuable time. BL there is no rush so take your time.