I was having a conversation with someone this morning about how there are more ways to break and violate vows than abuse or infidelity .

I was also saying to that person that the only way the kids get F’ed up in a divorce is how the parents end up acting. Kids end up way more screwed up living with parents who are unhappy. But after the divorce, your kids will thrive if the parenting is done right and you leave your couples stuff out of that equation .