The point of my relaying that story was that the emotions, words, and actions of the WAS rarely make sense. Even when they are standing before a judge for the divorce's finalization that they pushed for. Scott gave her every opportunity to change her mind, even at times asking her if she was sure against the advice here.
So yeah, I think her crocodile tears at the court date were just that, a crock. We aren't talking about a woman that was cheated on or abused here. This is a woman that went through all of this with eyes wide open. Scott is a good dude. Way better than I was for most of my marriage. He didn't deserve any of this.
Scott, you are going to have an awesome life my friend! You have put in the work, you're a great dad, and if you choose to try again you'll make a lucky lady a great husband.
And your ex is going to live to regret her decision.
I don’t believe they were crocodile tears. I’m with wayfarer. Yeah, she went through it eyes wide open. She sees everything for what it was, and those tears were likely real for the end of her marriage. It can really make someone sad to let go of something even when they feel like it is the best decision for them personally. Just because she wasn’t abused does not mean she doesn’t truly see this as the road she needed to take. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, because that’s not for me to judge, I didnt live her life .
The end of a marriage is sad. Even for the person who chooses to end it
